It wouldn’t defeat the purpose. The purpose is to define your roles and add clarity to the relationship, not complicate it and make you feel on edge. It’s the same reason people add a safe word for rough play, im sure if the option to stop was taken out then the majority of people wouldn’t do it. Do what makes you both feel comfortable.
Little has a separate blog but feel free to ask a question and we will both answer it.
The only preference i have is that little has all holes equally ready for my use.
You sound like you had quite an emotional and physical high that night and are probably experiencing a slight comedown. It’s just your body trying to replenish the energy and chemicals spent physically and mentally that night, its very natural and i wouldn’t worry too much about it, especially if you enjoyed it. The feeling will be a distant memory the next time you are getting spanked and spat on, i can assure you.
I’ve had rather a lot going on recently so i haven’t been able to blog much. More posts coming very soon though, and i might delve into the inbox and respond to a few questions.
She will be 25 in a couple of weeks.
Little hasn’t ever called me by my name in nearly a year, and would have a sore backside if she did.