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Anonymous asked:

my partner and I are making a contract to clearly define our dominate submissive roles. I wanted to have part of the contract say that at anytime we could end it and go back to normal. Would that completely defeat the purpose? I'm just nervous..

It wouldn’t defeat the purpose. The purpose is to define your roles and add clarity to the relationship, not complicate it and make you feel on edge. It’s the same reason people add a safe word for rough play, im sure if the option to stop was taken out then the majority of people wouldn’t do it. Do what makes you both feel comfortable.

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Anonymous asked:

Is your little a part of your blog? Would I be able to ask you both a question to gain perspective from you both? I need advice from a Dom and a sub

Little has a separate blog but feel free to ask a question and we will both answer it.

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Anonymous asked:

Last night I met up with a guy I know for the second time. He drove for five hours and got us a cheap hotel here. He knew I loved the idea of being submissive during sex. We hadn't had sex before. At first he tested the boundaries checking what I liked. Eventually I was getting hit across the face regularly, spanked, spat on and my hair pulled. I loved it. We talked a lot after. Well, he talked more. I liked to listen. I think he thought I was too quiet. But it was good. But today I'm sad. Why?

You sound like you had quite an emotional and physical high that night and are probably experiencing a slight comedown. It’s just your body trying to replenish the energy and chemicals spent physically and mentally that night, its very natural and i wouldn’t worry too much about it, especially if you enjoyed it. The feeling will be a distant memory the next time you are getting spanked and spat on, i can assure you.

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